No, it’s not what it sounds like. 
DH and I went to Oklahoma City for his aunt’s funeral Wednesday evening, and came home last night (and naturally ran into construction coming and going!) While we were there, we had the opportunity to visit with Brother, Sister-in-Law, and Toddler. (!) I hate that we were there in OKC for a funeral, but it was so great to see them! They are settling in, have a nice, new place, Brother’s job is good for him, and Toddler seems to be learning a lot in her new daycare program. Sister-in-Law has really gotten a great start on decorating the place, and it looks like a great job is in line for her. And her sister lives nearby, so I know she’s enjoying being closer to a part of her family, too.
Toddler evidently waitied up as long as she could, but ended up falling asleep before we could get there. We were later than we thought we would be. But about 2:30 a.m., she toddlered herself out to where we were sleeping and crawled into bed with us. What a sweetie. The next day, she stuck to me like glue, and don’t think I didn’t love that. Every time I set her down nearly, she said, “Hug you!” Which is Toddler code for ‘pick me up.’ Well, sometimes, it’s Toddler code for ‘I want something.’ But yesterday, it was the lovey one.
And the next morning, Sister-in-Law took us around and showed us some of the town. It is really a neat place, actually a ‘burb of OKC.
The funeral was nice. Well, I mean for a funeral. You know. Anyway, I made a flub of myself, as usual. I told DH’s cousins that I knew what they were feeling. That sounds presumptuous of me, because everyone’s grief is such an intensely personal thing.
But it wasn’t until the funeral itself we learned that the whole process of DH’s aunt’s death took only 3 weeks from diagnosis to the end. I immediately felt the need to reach out, because that news struck such a chord in me, since that’s exactly how long Dad’s cancer ordeal lasted, beginning to end. I later had the opportunity to try and rectify the statement and explain myself, but I still felt stupid. But I highly doubt we’ll see them again, if we do, it will probably only be for another funeral. DH and I have been together nearly 23 years, and in that whole time, he’s only seen his aunt maybe twice. They just aren’t as close as my immediate family, it’s sad to say.
On the way home, we passed through Yukon, Garth Brooks’ hometown.
It’s the water tower that reads Home of Garth Brooks. He’ll always be at the top of my favorite entertainers, right under Elvis. and right above Craig Ferguson.
And also, we had to stop, again coming and going, at the Cherokee Trading Post. I’ve loved stopping at that place since we were kids and vacationed with our folks. It’s got so many neat things, from trinkets to artwork. I could spend hours in there. And I’ve never even tried the pie, which is supposed to be legendary. I found a CD there after hearing a snippet of it over the speakers. It was a CD of Native American Pow Wow music, where the drums are beating, the callers are singing at the top of their
voices in a wild language that makes no sense. Which is exactly how I felt the day before, a rotten, rotten rotten day that I won’t even go into. You really don’t want to hear it, and I don’t feel like revisiting it. Believe me. So I bought the CD, and will play it on my iPod – - often, I’m sure.
And as we were on the road, I got a call from my writing friend, who told me that the guy
called her and said the puppies were ready! So today, we brought our new baby home. And I think the name Hermione (her-my-oh-nee) is going to stick. WE’RE SO
WEIRD. Dodger has been so happy, and so good about being nice to the baby. I’m trying to make sure he knows he’s still the baby, too. He was so excited , bouncing around all over the place, sniffing all over, etc. H
e looks happy to have her. Of course, guess who has been all sweet and cuddly with the baby he originally said no to! Well, not exactly this puppy, but ANY puppy. Mom says that she understood where he was coming from, with it being so easy to get attached to pets, and facing the hurt when we lose them. I see that
point, too. But I guess, Mom and DH are a lot like that, very protective of their hearts. I’m at the opposite end, not protective enough, I suppose.DH is smitten. When I went to PetSmart this afternoon, I saw a lady with two Scottie dogs. Our first dog together was a Scottie named Fancy. We got her when we bought our first home, too. She died a year
ago, one of the three pets we lost last year. Two to age, one to mysterious circumstances involving someone who did something to him while he was in the backyard! Anyway, Fancy was the apple of DH’s eye. So when I saw those Scotties at PetSmart today, and did a double-take, it was like a weird kind of blessing, a sign that this was
all a good thing. I’ll probably decide differently when Dodger and
Hermione double-team me on getting into the trash and chewing up my shoes.
Which reminds me– Bonnie advised me a while back that I should post pics exposing Dodger’s exploits as a chewy puppy. I haven’t, but I think I will. There’s still plenty to take pictures of!